You should really give this an opportunity to try a couple that I've tried. Consider me braving the waters. The first I would recommend is Catal. It's in Downtown Disney, but upstairs. Eat inside. The food is really wonderful, presentations are fantastic and Great desserts too! It was the first time I ever ate black rice.
The second is Antonello's. Bring your parent or an older neighbor just to fit in, but hey, start a trend, don't. I've been there 3-4 times recently and the food is consistently good and the service is impeccable! I always ask for the homemade Tagliatelle even if it's not on the menu. Can't beat homemade pasta.
That's enough to get you started. I think I'd like to try Salt Creek Grill, Geisha House, and I'd love some of your recommendations :D

@Shari, We've gone to Salt Creek Grill, a couple years ago, was really good. We just don't tend to be very big on the "frou-frou" places, I have to drag my wife to go to those type of places most the time. I think we will try to at least check out one of these though. We went to Five Crowns for Valentines day, that was really good. A lot of it has to do with my wife, she's a supertaster so she tends to be picky with flavors!